Ive been getting annoyed with my boyfriend with every little thing he does lately.?

so my boyfriends grandfather ped away. he was very ill .. so it was expected, as well lived a long life. my boyfriend was upset, but it was probably one of the happiest wakes ive ever been to, just because the man was old and now he was at peace. well, one of his good friends came and said to my boyfriend "when are we goin to hangout, i never see you anymore." not proper for a wake, esp. two feet from the casket. i always liked his friend til he straightup disrespected me .. and his friend will do my bf dirty. like use him for rides and stuff, and call my boyfriend after he left his girlfriend, and if his friend knew he was with me, he would expect my boyfrend to leave me and go with him to drink beers. i dont care WHAT HE DOES, i just dont want him breaking plans with me. It just pissed me off when my boyf said "ive been busy, although hes been busy, hes been sortof avoiding him bc he disrespected me. well anywayyy .. that pissed me off .. then last nite after i was in school and then went in the dentist, i was craving steak. usually our parents dont allow us to cook, but nobody was home in my house last nite and he eats without me .. i was busy with school and dentist from 2pm til 8pm, i was looking foward to eating a steak dinner. lol . (mind you, i never have steak ... too expensive in rest.) he says hes going out for pizza, but only havn one slice .. but he prob ate more than that, so he wasnt hungry for steakk .. so i wound up eating by myself. today, my gma comes home from the hospital from havn opened heart surgery so im at her house cleaning the sheets and sanitizing everything .. and i loose my phone somewhere in my gmas house. we have plans for brunch. he doesnt hear from me in about 45 min or so .. and eats without me .. i was looking forward to going out to brunch with himm .. and he said well i didtn hear from you .. i mean .. maybe this is crazy for me to expect him to come to my gmas and check on me .. HE DOES LIVE AROUND THE CORNER FROM HER. idkkkk .. i really dont know why im feeling like this . but am i wrong to be mad? or am i a selfish b**tch?